TJโs Journal
A place where I share about my stories, lessons and tools.
Burnout for highly driven individuals
In life โ thereโs no 100% marks goal. Many feel lost as the goalpost isnโt as clear-cut anymore. This is when itโs so easy to internalize external expectations from other people and treat them as our goalpost.
I disagree with finding the perfect job that makes you feel like youโre โnot workingโ
Instead of trying to find work you love so that you donโt feel like youโre working, craft a career that you deeply care about, one that you are willing to work hard for and be great at it.
Commitment to self is not just about being disciplined & hardworking
Although I am considered disciplined in the eyes of others, I struggled with being consistent in building my mindfulness & coaching business for many years. What was holding me back?
How can I find my passion?
if youโre unclear about what you want in life and what is your passion, there's nothing wrong with you.
Trust me, it's normal. I have been there, you're not alone.
Last Day at my corporate job
People don't really talk about the uncomfortable feelings of leaving a job. Know that feeling uncomfortable is part of the process and yes, you can be sad & scared, and still be making the right decision for yourself.
How to cope with anxiety after you quit your job
I resigned. I wish to say that every day, I wake up with a newfound sense of purpose with a motivated song in my heart. The reality is, I am feeling anxious most of the time these days. ๐๐จ, ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐๐จ ๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐ง๐ฑ๐ข๐๐ญ๐ฒ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐๐ฌ, ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ ๐ญ๐๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐๐๐๐ค?
Are you living your childhood dream or adult dream?
in many ways, I am already living my childhood dream for years and I am grateful. What I didnโt truly pause and inquire was โ whatโs my adult dream?
The power of future regrets
If you are consciously aware that this life is impermanent, that one day, we will all leave this earth. What will you do differently?
Feeling unproductive & feeling bad about it?
We have different seasons in a month, in a week, or even in a day. There will be days I can show up with 120% energy and days I can only muster up 60% energy.
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